I Thought Everyone Already Knows What I Know. Turns Out I Was Wrong. Heal Yourself and Heal the World.

Our minds are very good at making us believe that the way we are or the way we think or do something is the way everyone does it.  Sometimes when we do some healing and get to a certain point, we forget what it was like in the beginning and the struggles that we had and the problems we overcame to get to where we are.

For those of us that “do the work” sometimes we forget that at one point we weren’t doing the work.  It can be easy to forget where we came from and all of the ups and downs and pain and heartache that it takes to heal.  There is a reason they call them growing pains.  Growth is hard.  And there are other people all around us that aren’t doing the work.  They are scared and don’t know where to start.  Trust me when I tell you that when I am reminded and sit still and focus on remembering, I do remember and I know EXACTLY where you are coming from.

Doing the work is what I consider living life on life’s terms.  Not trying to control everything in our lives.  Letting things go.  Learning to sit with the pain of life and grow from it.  Not everyone knows what this is or how to do it.  In fact, most people don’t know this stuff.  I didn’t.  Living life on life’s terms is choosing not to numb the pain of life with drugs or alcohol.  Having healthy ways to relax and unwind that don’t involve poisoning our bodies.  Going within and unpacking all of the years and years and layers and layers of trauma and hurt.  The problem with trying to control everything and living life in this way is it causes everything to be shallow.  You don’t want a shallow life.  

I was on a call this week with one of my coaches - a true earth angel - a key part of my mindset, my way of being in this wonderful world and my success.  She reminded me that each one of us has gifts that are unique to us.  And our job/goal/purpose in this life is to share those gifts with others.  Just putting out there the things that you know and the things that have helped you grow.  This helps others and helps heal the world.

How simple is that?  Very simple but hard to see unless you have someone to point it out to you.  Of course, I couldn’t see it for myself.  This is the purpose of having advisors and coaches and people to help us along the way.  You have gifts.  I have gifts.  We all do.  And all of us want to know what our purpose is in this life - why are we here - what impact are we having?  Your purpose is to know yourself, go within, heal your trauma, experience the dark so that you can see the light.  You have to experience the contrast so that you know what you don’t want in order to know what you do want.  Anything that you don’t enjoy in your life experience isn’t bad or wrong - it is a truly a miraculous gift that will allow you to adjust your thoughts and mind your emotions to that you can attract more of what you do want.

I tend to always slip into the false belief that everything has to be perfect and grandiose and has to be rolled out on a red carpet.  Guess what?  That is total and complete bullshit.  It is the ego and its way of tricking me into thinking that I am not good enough and that what I have would not be useful to anyone else.  What I have is useful as my unique gifts just as what you have is useful as your unique gifts. 

Not knowing and needing help is the beautiful part of life.  And the next most beautiful part is your being ok with not being ok and being willing to ask for help.  Some of the greatest things I have learned over the last few years are things I never would have learned on my own.  And if I hadn’t let my guard down and destroyed the walls I had up and asked for help, I would not have healed and continue to heal.

People are suffering right now.  There is so much going on in the world.  Pandemic, hurricanes, fires, political unrest, social injustice, etc.  It is A LOT!  Trust me.  The average human was not created to deal with all of this.  But I am here to tell you that you may be the one causing most of your own suffering because of your thoughts, emotions and reactions to all that is going on around you.  Most of our suffering is generated in the space that is surrounded by our skull and located between our ears.  How do I know?  I know this because I was causing myself huge amounts of suffering.  I figured it out because I started my own healing journey years ago and I am pretty far down the road on that journey.  My journey will never end and I am no longer trying to get to a destination - I am enjoying the journey.  I will never be healed and I am now ok with that - I just try to be better today than I was yesterday and I try to help as many people as I can.  

So, it is ok if you don’t know what to do.  It is ok if you are freakin’ stuck.  It is ok if you don’t think you can make it one more day.  That is why we are here for you - every single one of us.  Here to help you and here to help you heal yourself.  To guide you home.  We are the ones on the journey - the healers.

I don’t know everything.  I learn from every single person I meet each and every day.  It hasn’t always been that way.  You have to dig deep inside to figure out what you need to heal and to decide that enough is enough.  You have to take action.  Surround yourself with people that have some of this stuff figured out.  That journey starts with you and ends with you and includes every single person in between.  You have unique gifts that only you have and you need to develop those gifts and share them with others.  

Trust me when I tell you this - everyone out there doesn’t know what you know.  They really don’t.  Your responsibility in helping to heal the greater consciousness of the world is to put yourself out there and share your gifts so that others can heal.  You have more gifts and more power than you could ever come up with in your wildest dreams.  Start healing today - the world is depending on you - the world needs what you have.  You are enough.

If I can help you in any way, please let me know.  Because this work is so very important, I have opened up 3 additional spots in my coaching schedule to help people who are hurting right now.  I can help.  If you or someone you know are spinning out of control then I want to hear from you.  If you don’t know what to do and are really having trouble with all that is going on, contact me.  What will it cost?  I am not worried about the money side of it - we can talk about that during our initial call (initial call won’t cost you anything).  This isn’t about money.  It’s about help.  

I am summoning the people that need my help!  If that is you, I am here to guide you on your journey.  Reach out today.  Best way to get me is email - Joseph@ChangingYourLifeLLC.com. Also, you can contact us through Live Chat here -  https://j-c-k.us/ChatCYLNow or call us at (800) 618-5580 - leave a voicemail if you don’t get us.